Well, number 1. I had sex with him, and number 2. He’s just good at presenting himself as a really good, caring person when he actually can’t care at all. He’s been there for me a lot recently, and has encouraged me to get rid of some bad habits.
He doesn’t want to be with me, because he doesn’t actually have feelings… So he is incapable of caring for me the way that I care for him. He doesn’t want to be with me because he feels as though it would be like lying, and that it would eventually hurt me.
Don’t allow yourself to be attracted to sociopaths. Don’t be into the challenge, the lack of mutual affection. Just don’t do that to yourself. Work on self-control. It’s not easy but you must try. You deserve better, have some respect for yourself.
Because it’s easy to find anyone, but hard to find the right one. I want to find someone I have chemistry with, who has the same values, perspective on life, similar ambitions and most of all it needs to be the right time for both of you to commit.
“It’s like love is a lesson / That I can’t learn … I’ve got this habit I abhor / When we go out / I’m always watching the door / As if there’s someone I’m gonna see / Who could outdo / The things you do for me” – Ben Gibbard, Death Cab for Cutie, pretty much sums it up for me
The guy that I’m into is a sociopath… I think that sums it up pretty well.
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Really why are you into him?
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Well, number 1. I had sex with him, and number 2. He’s just good at presenting himself as a really good, caring person when he actually can’t care at all. He’s been there for me a lot recently, and has encouraged me to get rid of some bad habits.
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So sexy is a big thing as you are attached now, so does he make you happy? x
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He makes me incredibly happy, yeah.
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That is good, what are the things missing? x
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He doesn’t want to be with me, because he doesn’t actually have feelings… So he is incapable of caring for me the way that I care for him. He doesn’t want to be with me because he feels as though it would be like lying, and that it would eventually hurt me.
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I think you can do better xx
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I’ve realized that I definitely can.
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xxx
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how are you? any news xx
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I’m doing well!! Actually, I’m dating a totally different person right now. That seems to be going fairly well. Thanks for asking!!
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Great news! See you will do well! maybe read my latest article about love cycles and let me know where you guys are? agree or not x
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I will definitely do that!!
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Great and I want to hear about your new man xx Hopefully this article will help with the new relationship!
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It’s happened really quickly, but I believe we are in cycle 4. And I just let him see me without makeup today! Hahah.
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Cycle four that is awesome you will have to keep me updated xx
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I definitely will!
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Wow that’s masochistic.
Don’t allow yourself to be attracted to sociopaths. Don’t be into the challenge, the lack of mutual affection. Just don’t do that to yourself. Work on self-control. It’s not easy but you must try. You deserve better, have some respect for yourself.
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good advise
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I am single because….I’m fat?
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Is that what you think? x
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Na sinlge cause I’m free
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free!
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nio!!!!!
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Well I’m pregnant now so there’s that
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congrats xx
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Because it’s easy to find anyone, but hard to find the right one. I want to find someone I have chemistry with, who has the same values, perspective on life, similar ambitions and most of all it needs to be the right time for both of you to commit.
Or you could settle… but that’s not what i want.
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yeah I agree – how is your love life
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“It’s like love is a lesson / That I can’t learn … I’ve got this habit I abhor / When we go out / I’m always watching the door / As if there’s someone I’m gonna see / Who could outdo / The things you do for me” – Ben Gibbard, Death Cab for Cutie, pretty much sums it up for me
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Hi sounds good – keep reading how is your love life?
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Through experiential learning it’s getting better, thank you:)
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thanks keep reading
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hope things are good
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