1) They are in a mood with you
- Holding back with the intimacy can occur because they are in a mood with you clearly this is a good reason
- The argument has turned them off you!
- Flirt with him and try to make it up to him but don’t push for it sure that things will cool down
2) They want to break up!
- They want to break-up and they are holding it back so you get the message that they are not interested, so you break-up with them! Men hate having to do the deed they always try to get the female to do it first
- Confront the situation in a calm manner and don’t panic
3) He is stressed out
- Life is too stressful so he just is not in the mood – try to talk and do relaxing things together
4) He is freaked out about commitment
- He is really freaked out so back off and relax – don’t pressure him!
5) He is worried about his performance
- Tell him you have noticed things have changed – tell him how you like it and work on it together – getting this correct will take time!
Watch out for any bogus excuses!